This is in preparation for a Begin / Tx interface that will similate
nested transactions with savepoints.
In addition, this passes the TxOptions struct by value and thereby
removes an allocation.
fastpath.Call was not incrementing pendingReadyForQueryCount when it
sent a function call. But it was being decremented when the function
call was finished and the server sent the ready for query message. This
caused pendingReadyForQueryCount to go negative. This meant that any
subsequent activity that depended on ensureConnectionReadyForQuery would
not operate correctly because the connection would be considered ready
before it had read all previous data off the wire.
fixes#403